..you get your tea ready in the mornings 🙂
and laundry folded in the evenings 🙂 🙂
Yeah ..my parents are here after almost 2 years
the inability to be with my parents when I should be, even though I know they will be just fine even if I am not there , thanks to my brother.
And the inability to justify the above , to MYSELF.
P.S : All is well at home thankfully, I have disabled comments on this post.
Am I doing right things as a mom ? Is Aryan getting enough attention ? Is this the right way to react in such a situation ? Should I react to his behaviour or should I let him be him and wait for some days / some time / some months ?
Some of the hundreds of questions I ask my self yearly , monthly, weekly, daily and sometimes hourly. I am sure husband does that too.
Its now and only now that I realize how difficult it is to be a parent and raise your kids into good human beings. Its now and only now I realize what my parents would have gone through to make whatever they could from me.
I know , I know , I am not a master piece but then to make a normal , average human being with a positive attitude to life , love for family and non-destructive nature is enough an effort, is what I know now.
There are days when I just give up. I feel like I cannot do more ,I cannot handle his tantrums ,or cannot take care of him , play with him etc, I need to do what I want , sleep when I want etc etc. Yeah I sound like a horrible mom ..but then this is my blog and so I am confessing..take it as you like it.
But then I know that its not possible. Its a commitment for life , forever , till I die ,I have to be a parent and I cannot be irresponsible , thats not the right God has given to parents. Kids , husbands and wives can be irresponsible at times , but not parents , coz each of their actions reflect on their kids. Since my son is quite young as of now I have afforded to me irresponsible sometimes and husband did cover for me , but it will not be possible when he grows up.
Also its only now I realize the love of parents for their kids. How I can keep loving him always, even when he hits , bites ,scratches me in anger , why do I not hate him. Had it be anyone else , I would have never forgiven him/her, but I cannot hate him more than a milisecond. Yeah , I do, (I confess again) I do get mad and hate him for a milisecond when he is a complete brat , but never more than that. I wonder how many times I would have made my parents feel like that even when I was an adult myself.
I do not know why I am writing this post , I do not know what is the point I am trying to make. What I know is that I need to be patient , a lot more patient and a lot more responsible in life. I need to be a good parent, without being stressed out about it 😛
I also need to thank my parents , for being what they have been. They may not have done an excellent job(knowing what I am,myself) , but whatever they have done is not too simple to do. (And plus perphaps they have done an excellent job but I was not good enough :-P) Thanks mummy and papa !
I am not a very quick kind of person when it comes to social networking etc. I am not on any social networking site except Orkut and I am not too active there as well. But Twitter is the buzz word all around. Yeah even in office everyone is talking about it , every one means EVERYONE !
I have heard enough that twitter is the fastest growing phenomenon on internet and that twitter is getting popular each passing second and the latest one , that Twitter is a threat to google ! (Watch the video here)
So I thought to give this one a try ! And to add to Twitter’s popularity and user base 🙂
Lets see if I enjoy this one ! Wish me Happy Tweeting and let me know if you are tweeting as well !
P.S : Thanks to all of you for your support ! Mom’s operation went fine and she is back home. Plaster would remain for a month or two. And she(rather they , my entire family) is cancelling her trip to Bangalore , which was due end of this month 😦
…to know that your mom is in hospital and you cannot go.
…to know that she will have a surgery (minor it may be) the next day and you won’t be around.
…And to have your bratty little kid around (in his terrible Twos) and you close your day with a big speech to him , on how he should be a good boy.
My Prayer on the next day to mother’s day is
God please grant some patience to me , lot of good health to my mom and little wisdom to my son !
P.S : Mom fell down in bathroom and has got her wrist fractured and is undergoing an operation as I do this post.
P.P.S : Belated Happy Mother’s day to All!
Found this poem here, and its suits this day JUST PERFECTLY !
Prologue : My Parents have become internet savy recently. All they do is check their mails for Aryan’s photographs and read Aryan Times.Yesterday evening I got a call from my parents.This is how the conversation went through.”
Mom : “Tu bahut nalayak hai” (you are useless)
Me : “Kyo“
Mom : “Tune Aryan ke liye cycle khareed li , hume bataya bhi nahi” (you bought a cycle for Aryan and did not even tell us)***They wanted to buy him a cycle and I have been postponing that***
Me(confused) : “Maine , Nahi, Kab” (Me,No,When)
Mom : “Haan“
Me : “Nahi , aapko kisne bola” (No,who told you)
Mom : “Tune Aryan ki site par likha hai“(You wrote on Aryan’s site)
Me(More confused, has someone hacked my blog, who wrote, when ) : “Nahi“
Mom : “Haan ,tetra cycle“
Me(Relaxed now) : “Nahi woh doosra Aryan hai” (No thats another Aryan)
Mom : “Nahi , woh Aryan ki site par aa raha tha“
Me : Sigh !!!
It took me a long time to explain them that they would have reached the other Aryan’s blog by clicking at some of her’s comment or her blog link on my blog.